For many the thought of walking into a shop and casually buying a sex toy is akin to public nudity, it's completely mortifying. Somehow just being in the same proximity as a vibrator or dildo labels them a sexual deviant or repressed nymphomaniac.
Issue date: 24/05/08
There are so many myths surrounding the use of sex toys that Adult-Love, online provider of erotic toys, has decided to set the record straight and separate fact from fiction, taking the shame out of what is a very common-place and deliciously fun activity.
MYTH 1: Sex toys are for perverts, weirdoes or sluts.
They may well be, but on the whole the vast majority of those using sex toys are regular people who acknowledge that their libido is one aspect of their life that needs some special attention. It's a natural instinct and as such should be treated with the respect it deserves, even if that means giving it a helping hand now and again.
MYTH 2: Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life or no sex life.
Sex toys are not about replacing or substituting something that's missing. They're about adding to and enhancing your sex life, whether you're using them on your own or with your partner. Taking time to experiment gives you a chance to find out what really turns you on and helps you explore and discover how best to stimulate your body.
MYTH 3: My partner wants to use erotic toys. I must be sexually inadequate.
If you've been in a relationship for a while and your other half suddenly appears with a selection of erotic toys, it can be tempting to rush to the wrong conclusion. However t is NOT a reflection on your sexual aptitude. Sex toys like vibrators are not a replacement for a lover; if you weren't there, you would definitely be missed. Take it as a compliment that your partner feels comfortable enough with you to introduce them and just lie back and enjoy the benefits.
MYTH 4: Sex toys are just for masturbation.
While erotic toys are perfect for providing solo relief, they are far too versatile not to be shared. It's just a case of letting your imagination go wild and seeing where it takes you.
MYTH 5: If you have a good relationship, you shouldn't need a sex toy.
In fact, the truth is if you have a good relationship it is more likely you WILL be using or have used a sex toy at some point during your time together. When couples are open about their needs and are not afraid to experiment in front of the other person it's a reflection of the trust they share, indicative of a healthy and caring partnership.
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